Friday, May 25, 2012
She smiled and I was lost
Andrea and I often pass each other walking through the house doing this thing or that. Every now and again she will return my smile with girlish grin somewhat shy. Those times I know that I have managed to stay in love these 19 years. Not just stay but grow. She is my all in all and I am complete. In that moment I have achieved every goal and become all that I ever wished to be.
Wednesday, May 9, 2012
"Somebody I used to know"
Everyone at my house has been enamored with the pop song "Somebody I used to know" by Gotye. The song very accurately portrays some of the angst a breakup causes. What this song did that amazed me was to include those intense feelings from both sides. As he bellows out his pain that she is part of his past she reacts to the control and anger she felt from him.
One truth is that sometimes it is better just to move on and let it go.
Another truth is that sometimes you can work together and move on together.
We all have choices about who and what we want. Next time you see a couple, with gray hair and stooped backs walking together, you can be sure at some point they felt this way. You don't get to be that cute old couple without putting in the time and effort. Any relationship can grow or die. It is up to those involved to decide.
- Now and then I think of all the times you screwed me over
Part of me believing it was always something that I'd done
But I don't wanna live that way
Reading into every word you say
You said that you could let it go
And I wouldn't catch you hung up on somebody that you used to know
One truth is that sometimes it is better just to move on and let it go.
Another truth is that sometimes you can work together and move on together.
We all have choices about who and what we want. Next time you see a couple, with gray hair and stooped backs walking together, you can be sure at some point they felt this way. You don't get to be that cute old couple without putting in the time and effort. Any relationship can grow or die. It is up to those involved to decide.
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